《阮玲玉》赵玫
“蔷薇 蔷薇
处处开 挡不住春风
吹进怀 一片苦海
情难断 义难了
乱我心怀 人言难捱
质本洁 还洁去
天尽头处
香魂 安在”
《葬心》阮玲玉
“蝴蝶儿飞去心亦不在
凄清长夜谁来拭泪满腮
是贪点儿依赖
贪一点儿爱
旧缘该了难了换满心哀
怎受的住这头猜那边怪
人言汇成愁海辛酸难捱
天给的苦给的灾都不怪
千不该万不该
芳华怕孤单
林花儿谢了连心也埋
他日春燕归来身何在...”
这其实不单单只是发生在阮玲玉的身上，也不只是限制于娱乐圈。人心若“贪点儿依赖”，就会习惯性的想依赖他人，当不能再依赖时，人反而会觉得自己站不住。人心若“贪一点儿爱”，并且正碰上“旧缘该了”的状况，反而会陷入“剪不断，理还乱”的困境。在这个人脉相互连接的社会里，闲言闲语是难避免的。可是当这种现象越来越腾达时，这造成强大的压力，加上之前的彷徨无助与混乱，使人走上绝路。几年前当看到和认清这些事实时，使自己变得冰冷的原因之一：绝不要走他们的后尘，白白浪费了性命，不值。
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You know what;after going through what I had been through for the last 2 yrs,I kinda give up in finding many many friends.Sometimes,it is the quality that counts,quantity?it is not as important;because as you grow up,you will actually feels that people come and go...only the sincere ones will stay.
Moverover,freezing oneself is just a way of protection.
Nothing is everlasting in the world,happiness fades,sadness fades,excitment fades,fearfulness fades...
虽然我是基督徒，可是佛教讲的“缘起缘灭”是很有道理的。
“贪一点儿爱”并不可耻；只是感情变质了。
爱情是没有道理的。只能说人心易变，难测罢了。
老实说，你最后一句我听过并读过无数次，曾经到一个地步认为‘these are just excuses/lies" .现在我只能说我对这句已麻木.
True, qualiy counts and "Only the sincere ones will stay" but then when you are really in need, ok lah in my case, it is usually mentally, so therefore, when I'm really in deep trouble, I could only depend on myself as it is only I ( and God) who can save myself.
我个人认为生命已经是短暂的,倒不如追求永恒的东西,至少不会觉得'我到底在这个世界是干什么的，只是为了些短暂的东西而活吗？我那么辛苦的战斗把命给留了下来，为的是这样浪费吗？对得起自己吗？”哦还有，若我真的不幸的走了（我这些病可是致命的），那我的庆朋好友不就要伤心愈决吗？那还倒不如少交，当个影子，一阵风。
当然也有人认为既然生命是短暂的， so why not try everything,放胆的去做，live life to the fullest，不想带着遗憾走。可我就做不到。What is life worth? If you have to, what things are you willing to exchange with your life?
《拍卖自己的生涯》毕淑敏 --"1. 豪宅；2。巨富；3。一张取之不尽用之不懈的信用卡；4。美貌贤惠的妻子或英俊博学的丈夫；5。一门精甚的技艺；6。一个小岛；7。一座宏大的图书馆；8。和你的情人浪迹天涯；9。一个勤劳忠诚的仆人；10。三五个知心朋友；11。一份价值五十万美元并每年可获得25%纯利收入的股票；12。名垂青史；13。一张免费旅游世界的机票；14。和家人共度周末；15。直言不讳的勇敢和百折挠的真诚”？Those whom I mentioned earlier fall in the advanturous category( e.g. 5.and 13). These choices reflects your 人生观。
Hahaha...
I am choosing 8,5,14.
In terms of financially,I am quite a down-to -earth person.Since there is no free meal in this meal,hard work is inevitable.As for why I choose 8,haha...I still wanna get get married and have a life partner despite falling out of puppy love twices.My parents told me relationship at teen times usually are not lasting.
你有听说过“嫁得早不如嫁的好”吗？
“命中有时终须有，命中无时莫强求”。
这两句话是我现在对爱情的态度。
What is the purpose of getting into relationship at a younger age,(for us,at the age of 19)when you are not very mature in dealing relationship and fall in and out of love for several times?
Trust me for something,as an advice from a friend.
It is hard to forget a guy and the memories you had with the him.It is a sweet-bitter symphony.That's how I feel from my twice experience.
Love and life can be complicated at times.
For me 15 is enough. Even if I have to lose everything else, I wouldn't mind or rather mind as much.
Hmm...I think time and experience will tell the answer.=)...As I have said,life is a bitter-sweet symphony.The musician is us ourself.
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